Lichy, Allure's Enigma

0: If target player is of the gender you're attracted to, you both get 1 life.
+1: Exile target creature card from a graveyard. If you do, create a token that's a copy of that card, except it has -2/-2.
-3: If target player is of the gender you're attracted to, that player loses 2 life and you gain 2 life.