The Lover (Exile)

The Lover is a representation of the Self's failed attempts to find love in their youth, hoping to fill the void left by their uncaring caregivers. This exile is the culmination of the Self's various self-esteem issues, their desperate need for validation and acceptance, and fantasies of love that were unfulfilled. Often this results in their incapability to make commitments, in fear of making a mistake when it comes to the matters of the heart. The Lover has an overwhelming need to prove themselves to be